Friday, May 29, 2015
So you're not hurting anyone, huh?
When I was actively drinking away my youth, I always said I was never hurting anyone but myself. 15 years later (after 6 years of sobriety), another sober person slapped me in the face with the truth. He said, "You never hurt anyone, huh? That's bullshit. Your ABSENCE hurt people. Every time you were busy drinking instead of spending time with friends and family obligations, you were hurting them. Every day you were emotionally distant, you were hurting people. You think they weren't bleeding inside trying to figure out what was going on with you? You're fooling yourself." The truth hurt, but needed to be heard.
How easy it is to believe the lies we tell ourselves. How easy it is to not see the harm we may actually be causing.
May I never go back to hurting people knowingly or unknowingly.